So many women have to learn the hard way that one night stands are not the path you follow to happiness. Yet, more and more women give their bodies to men they barely know. Maybe it appeases a fascination that was fixated in their minds while listening to Usher and really believing they could find some Love in this Club. Or maybe instead of dwelling on the failed relationships of the past, they down their sorrows in the possibilities that someone like TONY brings – only TONY isnt a regular guy. He leaves you asking The Other Night Y?
While basking in the afterglow that TONY’s left you with, you have to understand the emotional rollercoaster you may find yourself riding the morning after – you know, once you’ve given him your Good Good and asked him to get Freaky with you. Don’t be surprised when he doesnt call you, even after you wait by the phone for days wondering if you lost all your respect by showing him what you look like in your t-shirt and panites. Now you’ve showered and trying to get on with you day but still feeling dirty. You wish you could rewind to the part where you get to know each other – maybe find out TONY’s last name. Shoot, you might even share your own this time around.
There’s also a larger price to pay by spending a night of sexual freedom with TONY – the time it takes to gt your test results back when your not sure if through your spontaneity you took the time to practice your most minimal bedroom responsibilities. Maybe he didnt give you anything that could take your life, bu he may have given you something that could cause you to birth one. Then what happens with the seed of your single evening of inhibition needs a last name, or asks who its other parental unit is who went half on a baby with you? What kinds of answer will you give. The golden rue to remember when dealing with TONY is to ask yourself – if you cant trust your best cousin to repay the $20 you loaned them last week, how can you really in good conscious trust a stranger with your most pricesless posession and expect for them to treat it respect and handle with care.
Defintiely one to think about. Listen to the tune T.O.N.Y by Solange while you think it over….
